Prinsip-prinsip Pacaran Perjanjian Alkitabiah bagi Kaum Muda Kristen

Authors

  • Yanto Paulus Hermanto Sekolah Tinggi Teologi Kharisma
  • Dian Cyntiawati Sekolah Tinggi Teologi Kharisma

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.46495/sdjt.v13i2.207

Keywords:

Bible, Relationship, Christian Youth, Covenant Dating

Abstract

God created humans to live in pairs. Dating is the stage of a person looking for and finding his life partner. There are ethics and norms that apply in society when it comes to dating. Likewise in Christianity, the Bible teaches a covenantal relationship that is consistent with the truth of God's Word. The author conducted a qualitative research using a descriptive method to collect data relating to dating relationships in accordance with the Bible and made observations on church youth through library research. The results of the data analysis show that the Bible teaches Christians about covenant relationships. So that God's plan in life for his future is fulfilled, and God's name is glorified.

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2024-06-29

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Hermanto, Y. P., & Cyntiawati, D. (2024). Prinsip-prinsip Pacaran Perjanjian Alkitabiah bagi Kaum Muda Kristen . SANCTUM DOMINE: JURNAL TEOLOGI, 13(2), 347–360. https://doi.org/10.46495/sdjt.v13i2.207

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